Why is she silent?
Many men in their relationships with girls (women) faced the problem of "ignoring" their girlfriend. This could manifest itself in different ways, for example, a girl does not call or write to you, does not answer your calls, and when meeting she is silent for a long time. The reasons for this behavior of girls can be many, and often, some of them are understood only by themselves, and men, no matter how hard they try to understand them, can do nothing. About why she is silent, tell our article.
Consider some thoughts of men and women who, when "ascertaining," can lead to such "ignoring":
- A man, speaking of love, often characterizes only the degree of pleasure that he receives. A woman thinks that talking about love is a guarantee of future relationships and recognition of her exclusivity.
- When a man gives a ring to a woman - he makes her pleasant, hoping, for example, to respond in bed or without any intent. But women regard such gifts as an engagement.
- The man praises the food cooked by the woman and happily stays the night with her,for it is nice for everyone to wake up in a tidy apartment and eat for breakfast not sandwiches or scrambled eggs, but a real homemade breakfast, which is also served by a beautiful woman. But a woman at this time presents a picture of a successful marriage, perceiving such a “living” of a man “in her territory” as the first step towards marriage.
- When a man asks who the woman is with, where she is and what she is doing, he is just wondering when you can count on meeting her. And the woman thinks that the man is very much interested in her personal life, since she claims to be the place of the “unique and unique”.
When such things become clear, the woman feels used, which is why she is silent and she has no desire to communicate with a man. In order to avoid such unpleasant situations, you must sit down and discuss the situation.
What reasons may still be
In addition to all the above, it must be remembered that if everything is too good, then it is “also bad.” After all, then it would be boring and monotonous, which would give rise to other tensions in the relationship between a woman and a man. Also, we all know that in a relationship everything cannot be very smooth and amicable.It must be borne in mind that communication is a manifestation of the relationship between a man and a woman. Since, through communication, and not just actions and deeds, we demonstrate a relationship to each other.
To understand why a woman responds so, you need to put yourself in her place. It is very difficult, because people are so different and it is difficult to imagine yourself in the place of another person. Think about it, maybe you said something or did “not so” and the girl, after some time, rethinking your words or deeds, does not want to speak first.
But do not be upset, because such behavior of girls is, as a rule, a short-term phenomenon. Try to be more persistent or, on the contrary, give her a “rest” from you, because a girl can simply be shy and unsociable, which does not mean at all that you have become indifferent to her. But, nevertheless, if the girl’s behavior does not change with time, then you need to understand that she doesn’t want to see you at all, she doesn’t need you. With this, no matter how sad it is, you need to accept and remember that life does not end there.
Now you know why she is silent!